Behavioral Coaching

For many people, executive coaching is like dieting. Everyone claims to have the solution to losing weight quickly. You try one diet after another and maybe you lose some weight, but as soon as you go off the diet, you gain the weight right back.

It’s the same way with Executive Coaching; you’ve probably heard lots of pitches about how to change your personal habits or how to achieve a good work-life balance. And, maybe these have worked for a little while, but eventually it became just too much trouble and the results were disappointing.

What you need is a turn-key emotion management system
You can have the most brilliant product, idea or concept, but without effective emotion management the world will never know about you. You have heard the axiom, "It's not what you know, it's who you know." It's not true! It's not about "who you know", it's all about "who knows you". To build your personal and business success and dominate your marketplace you need a powerhouse of people who know you. And, you need someone who knows the sneaky little tricks of emotion management to make sure you STOP annoying behaviors that turn people off from wanting to know you. That's what makes my program unique!

Did you know that the higher you go in organizational life the higher the level of technical skill that is required. You need to be smart. But the higher you go in an organization your people skills often make the difference in just how high up you go. I’ve advised some of the world’s top experts, smart people, on how to make positive, long-term, measureable change to behaviors that helped them achieve at a higher level. My easy-to-learn emotion management system has brought them higher positions and rewards and I can do the same for you.

Every month uyou will realize how easy it is to change bad habits that I have not realized had crept into your way of managing.

Create a Simple Blueprint for Success
If you are an entrepreneur, business owner, CEO, senior level executive, expert professional, or simply someone wanting to better manage your own behavior to achieve the next level of success, I can help you get into the emotion zone and take your success to whatever level you want. What I’m really good at is facilitating your emotional wealth by helping you tap into your real coaches - the people you work with (higher ups, peers, direct reports, and suppliers).

You'll work with your private coaches (higher ups, peers, direct reports, and other stakeholders) to forge a 10-step development plan to identify and nail habits that hold you back from the top. I helped a Vice-President in the Resource Sector, learn to master her emotion management. Here’s what she has to say:

“In working with Dr. Mike Gosling over the course of a year I was able to stop an annoying habit that I barely knew was occuring but which was turning people off me. Now I'm back in control of my emotions and the emotions of others, my salary went up, and I've taken on new assignments with relish.”

- COO, Brand Maker, Singapore.

Clearly, you don’t have to be a genius to know that you can achieve whatever you want to in life if you know how to effectively handle your emotions. You see, everything you do in life is about how you feel about what happens to you. If you're feeling great, congratulations - that's a non-problem status. If you're feeling poorly, and others are being impacted negatively by your behavior, then that affects them and you. You can be the most highly qualified engineer, accountant, manager, doctor, or crane driver but be completely unaware of how your behavior impacts on those around you in the workplace and at home.

Would you have any objection to learning how successful people become even more successful?
You already know the functional aspects of your career and are probably very expert in it. I can't help you with that. You have already enjoyed the success that comes in spite of your behavior due to your talent, hard work, and some good luck. Perhaps you "Don't suffer fools gladly" and believe that your success is linked to this behavior, when in fact you could be even more successful if you were to explore whether this in fact was true. Maybe you are a bad listener or you fear listening to others because you fear the loss of your creative impulses.

"OK Mike, I get the picture, but how do I find a behavior that I may need to stop?" you ask. Let me show you how to cause a stampede of bad habits that could be considered:

Does any part of your behavior impact adversely on others?
How often do you self-judge, rate others and impose standards on them?
Are you often sarcastic - Do you make comments you think are sharp and witty?.
How often do you ask others about your perceptions; your view of yourself?
Do you often fail to express gratitude to those around you?
Have you refused to share information in order to maintain an advantage over others?
Are you guilty of not being an active listener - Do you listen to, level with, and validate others?
How many times a day do you use negative qualifiers ( "Yes, but...", "No", or "However") to secretly say to others, "I'm right. You're wrong."

Emotional Wealth is the FORCE of Real Life...
I am proof that all the emotional intelligence techniques you have heard about are true! I share openly what has worked for me and create the confidence that my emotion management system - The Science of Emotional Wealth - is for real and will work for anyone.

Renowned Behavioral Coach, Dr. Marshall Goldsmith, says, "What got you here, won't get you there." I completely agree. You are what you think. You must get involved to make your behavior current with today’s brain technology. Get ready for massive growth in your personal and business success.

I will guide you on the path to staying well and having healthy relationships, the beginning point for all successful leaders. I facilitate you finding deeper meaning and purpose through exploring your unique gifts and talents to draw out how you might manifest great creative and financial wealth in your life.

If you are ready to experience phenomenal growth in your emotional leadership and massively increase the number of people "who know you" - if you really want to find that one barely recognized annoying behavior that's keeping you from where you want to be - give me a call at +65-6281-5157.

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